Fourteen year old boys and birth control…

Hello everyone! How do you like the title? Well, it has been an interesting week here at the Christensen Huis – get yourselves something to drink, pull up a chair, and get ready!

About 2 weeks ago, my son – Sam – came home with some paperwork from his life skills class. He either had to write a 5 page essay on adoption OR he could have “Program Baby” for 2 days and 2 nights. Sam and I had a long discussion about all the people we know who have either been adopted or wanted to to adopt… it is a good list, varied – some in state and some out of country adoptions. Sam though felt that 5 pages were, well… F – I – V – E pages…you know LONG and lots of work. And, even though I cast my vote for the essay – last night he came home from school with his new baby “Max”. Max who fusses, cries, needs to be changed, attended to – and quite franky – slept as much as most new babies do. Sam got very little sleep last night – how he managed to not wake me up is something I am still wondering about! Well, anyway – if any of you have the priviledge of having teenagers in your homes – you know that they need a LARGE amount of sleep – kind of like babies themselves, now that I think of it!! Sam had a bit of a reprieve – he could drop the baby off to the life skills class so that he could attend his other classes today – but he had to go get “Max” at the end of school today and once again – the new baby is in the house again tonight. Although I helped Sam a bit after school so he could get his homework done. This baby has some kind of monitor inside it – if it cries for any length of time – it is registered and how quickly you respond to the cries is registered as well. So, we have “fed”, “burped”, “changed diapers” (although this is an odorless – messless process – this would be nice in REAL LIFE!! LOL) etc. This all needs to be logged by Sam to turn in to the teacher. Sam was not his usual self at the breakfast table this morning – he informed me that he WAS NEVER having kids! I am not sure what brilliant teacher thought this up – but Holy Cow – they deserve an award! Sam and I had an indepth conversation this morning about the consequences of sex – something we had talked about before, but it had new meaning this morning – my son is growing up – he is not my baby anymore. I am proud of him (as I have always been) – but I am seeing him through “new eyes” and hearing him with “new opened ears” as well! I know that a 5 page paper would have never have taught him what he learned these past 2 days – I am glad that he did NOT listen to my suggestion!

Hopefully, this baby will “sleep” better here tonight than he did last night – but I am so glad he is here in our home!

2 thoughts on “Fourteen year old boys and birth control…

  1. LOL…this is rich! While he might be spendng a few difficult days with Max, it surely shows him the consequences that a few moments could cost him.

  2. that is so funny! my last youth group sytdy seesion i was yanking my hair out as two 12 yr olds told me they were ready for marriage!
    since they are the adults in their homes and clean, cook etc… they would not be detered. i wish i had one of those babies. having 3 “birth control failure” babies…the only safe sex is NO sex! you don t want a baby? do not have sex! :-)

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